What makes of a relationship when it is composed of you, your man, and his porn? In this article porn is referred to her. When intimacy subsides, because of a mans addiction and affair with his beloved other, what then is a woman to do? If it was really just sex with the eyes and thoughts then why are the woman who reenact such fantasies displaying there faces in porn. He watches her face, and in his thoughts kisses her lips while he has her way with her. Is that not cheating? And if it is what about the revealing woman who stands in the streets while he stares while he’s hand in hand with you. Is that not cheating? When you are his and he yours, do you not share him with many other woman while his eyes, thoughts, fantasies and most intimate moments are shared with another.

It seems as though she is pleased and I am left unsatisfied. She is a thought, a figment of what my other half has been sexually satisfied by. Is that not something both I and him should share amongst ourselves? He takes the time with her, satisfies her, and comes back wanting more. Is that not cheating? The sad thing is that to him it is a normal routine, bust as for us woman do we have anything that is of equivalence to that satisfaction he endures? From experience we do not. He is not threatened because he is satisfied, but I being a woman in that relationship with him and her am not enough and every night left unsatisfied.

I must have expressed my disappointment and dislike of his passion for her(porn). I’ve been lied to on her behalf and though it hurts me he defends her in his honor. If I should give an ultimatum of me or her I know that although he says he will stop seeing her, he will always find time for her. Society has accepted her as she is to the point where it is normal. But what constitutes for normal now a days and if what is defined as normal can ruin a relationship, how normal is it? I may be a woman with many thoughts and dislikes. If it hurts and if it ruins and takes away of what should be mine then do I not have the right to say anything?